How do I 'come out' twice to my parents?

2021.10.16 07:15 OOTboi How do I 'come out' twice to my parents?

I (28m) know this is a strange situation... but I think I'm finally comfortable enough in my own skin to tell my parents about who I am... but I'm not sure how to do it. Some context. Ever since I was young, I have only ever been exclusively attracted to much older men. Typically ages 60 and up. I always thought I was a freak. I don't know why I am this way, and I have lived nearly my whole life ashamed of this and tried burying it. I tried dating women my own age, I couldn't even bring myself to kiss them. Same with men my own age... I fell into a deep depression. It was really bad. I didn't want to get out of bed most mornings, and I didn't some days. Fast forward to college just 4 years ago, I finally gave in and went online to start seeing older men in secret. That same year I began a relationship with an older man (m78 at the time)... and we have been together ever since. Ever since we started being together it's like my depression that was here for years is suddenly totally gone. I still get anxiety at night, but honestly that's more so because of the stress of coming out. We live together now, and I love him more than anything. We get along fantastic, and just a few months ago I came out to all of my friends about him, and most of them have met him several times at this point... and they have all handled it better than I could ever dream, and have been so incredibly supportive that I am actually tearing up as I type this right now. They are the best friends I could ever ask for.
So with all of that backstory out of the way, how do I tell my family? I am very close to my family. My parents have never been fond of homosexuality and make negative comments about it frequently... so when I tell them... do I tell them it all at the same time, rip the band aid off? Do I come out to them as gay first, let them digest that for as long as they need, then tell them about the attraction to older? The other way around? What would be the best way to do this? I also have to consider how to break it to them that I've been seeing someone for 4 years... I wish I had done all of this before starting this relationship... but I didn't think I would ever get to the point where I would be ready to be completely out of the closet... but, not to get too sappy, I just love this guy way to much... he's just the best.
Any advice? A parents perspective of how they would like their child to approach them if they were in this situation would be unbelievably helpful. Also, should I tell them in person, over text, email, letter,, phone? I know its going to happen... but I'm dreading making my mother cry, and I just can't get that image out of my head... Thank you all so much for any advice you can give me.
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