Trauma from Procedures

2022.01.26 12:04 foxiemoxiemoo Trauma from Procedures

Hi all. I’ve been following along and commenting on this sub for a while now, and I’m experiencing something I haven’t really seen talked about, at least recently. I guess I want to know if others have experienced variations on this or if it’s unusual. I would really appreciate hearing your stories as I’m feeling overwhelmed about my upcoming transfer.
I have always disliked gynecological exams. I mean who doesn’t? But a little beyond them being uncomfortable, I usually feel a little shaken when the doctor leaves the room and sometimes a few tears come. I just feel invaded and violated. I had an HSG about a year ago which was incredibly traumatic. I was not warned it would be painful, and I was basically screaming on the table. When I told my doctor she was like completely shocked “I’ve never had anyone say it was painful” I know from reading stories online that just can’t be true! I have been fine with all of the monitoring appointments and transvaginal ultrasounds. I don’t love them but they don’t feel that invasive to me overall.
This week I had to go for a mock/trial/practice transfer to prepare for my first transfer. It was not incredibly painful (though a little more painful and uncomfortable than I expected maybe) but it took about two minutes and when the PA pulled the catheter and speculum out she said the bathroom is around the corner and left the room before I could even speak. The ultrasound tech left the room at the same time, without even wiping the goo off my stomach and when I sat up it got all over my clothes and ran down my legs. I just involuntarily burst into tears and started shaking.
I finally got myself together and left and no one even spoke to me, asked how it was or if I had any questions about the transfer. I assume the doctor and staff will be more caring on the day of transfer as it’s supposed to be kind of a special moment right? Regardless, now I am scared for my transfer. Not that it will be too painful, but that I will have a similar reaction and that my transfer will be a traumatic experience. I guess I even feel afraid it might impact the outcome because the feeling is of everything in my body saying NO.
Has anyone else felt this kind of accumulating trauma of the procedures that come with infertility and IVF? Has anything helped you? Specifically, what was your experience with mock transfer and transfer? Do you think I’ll feel differently on the day of, or is there anything I can ask my doctor about? If you’ve made it this far, thank you so much for reading. So much love to all of you going through this to start a family.
Edit: I am aware that some of my reaction may seem like I have a history of sexual assault and I do not. I also feel I am always fully consenting to these procedures, though it’s not like I have a choice.
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2022.01.26 12:04 breakneckaloe Weekly poll #1 - Should Verdansk be brought back as a secondary map?

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2022.01.26 12:04 zevver changed my K3 from browns to bananas: recommended

TL;DR: if you get yourself a low profile keychron, you might want to consider the yellows instead of the browns
Long version: I got myself a low profile optical K3 v2 a few weeks ago; I love the form factor and feel of the keyboard, but I had a hard time getting on good terms with the device; I normally need a week or two to get to full speed on a new keyboard, but I kept making too many mistakes on this one. My suspicion was that the switches were simply too sensitive, which makes the keyboard very unforgiving for any slight mistype: the keys seem to register slightly before the tactile bump, causing lots of unintended hits.
After some reading up I decided to order myself a set of banana flavored switches, as these have the bump on top instead of halfway the key travel. I took some time replacing the lot today, and I'm not disappointed: this changes the nature of the keyboard in a positive way, and stops it from being a sensitive little whiner: I just now get the keys I intend to hit, with less unintended hits. This also seems to increase my typing confidence on this board, because having to be less careful to hit only the right spots, I noticeably sped up my typing right away.
Also: for sale: a bag full of optical low profile browns :)
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2022.01.26 12:04 Killa_J What would you do if you had enough money to buy a mansion?

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2022.01.26 12:04 Illustrious_Grade530 [PC SERVER][OldschoolArk]PVP, No Mods, Vanilla Rates, 5 Man Tribes, Oldschool Maps Only TheIsland Aberration and Scorched Earth, Community Driven, NEW, Longterm

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2022.01.26 12:04 Mymomgay1 Goodye, Omega. Been nice knowing you

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2022.01.26 12:04 Shadowstep74 [WTS][GR][+3] Mastadon nerf Greece 75€. Shipping is available at buyers cost.

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2022.01.26 12:04 andrewnefdotcom "Our democracy has been captured and destroyed by corporations that steadily demand more tax cuts, more deregulation, and impunity from prosecution for massive acts of financial fraud." -Chris Hedges

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2022.01.26 12:04 Pretty-Information75 it’s me again .. still asking the same question. i guess the world will never know

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2022.01.26 12:04 infinitesunny Florida rent hikes were "on another level" last year. Increases continue with no end in sight

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2022.01.26 12:04 lennylennylennyy Anybody interested in Challenger Gwen gameplay? [EUW]

Anybody interested in Challenger Gwen gameplay? [EUW] Hey guys I am Lenny, I am a Fiora main and have been Challenger for the past 3 seasons on EU West. Lately I really started enjoying playing Gwen and I wanna get a lot better at her, I've been doing research in builds and playstyle and would be down to stream my games on my 2nd account (master) that I am trying to grind to challenger mainly playing Gwen. So if anybody is interested let me know!
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2022.01.26 12:04 rakso030 Austrian/German Rap Legend Money Boy claims FBG in his new Pushin P Remix 🔥🔥

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2022.01.26 12:04 saltyswedishmeatball Why do you all not stand up for yourselves on major subreddits like on r/WorldNews

Germany for example, a person in high command said that Putin demands respect and that people should give it among other things yet right now, as always, Germany is a saint that can do no wrong.
They are one of the largest weapon suppliers in Europe yet they send hard hats!
They are extremely pro-Chinese, rarely on the bandwagon with us Swedes, Americans, Canadians, Australians, etc. They very very clearly favour Russia/China bloc while trying to appease the other bloc as to not hurt their precious profits.
Now instead of trying to find alternative fuel, they are going to make sure that Russia is known for getting its way with blackmail by kneeling down to them the same way they've kneeled down to the Chinese Communist Party for decades.
Their top government officials get top jobs in Russia petrol companies.
Yet virtually all of this is silent on subreddits like Worldnews. In fact the insults are going to the US instead even though some articles are calling out Germany entirely, it always ends with Germany is victim, Germany can do no wrong, others are baddies.
Stand up for yourselves FFS.
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2022.01.26 12:04 mogla Reservations about potential new role

hi all, I've heard through back channels that the tech guy at our office may want to move on. We are a small company and he is a jack of all trades handling a significant part of our business, related to data integrations with various API's. I may be asked to take over, with his help. Problem is I'm relatively inexperienced (I've got a bit of Python/Linux under my belt--mostly dabbling on personal projects). He on the other hand is well versed in C#, MS SQL stored procedures, API integrations, Azure, security, etc, and has built up a process over several years that would likely take me a while to untangle and get comfortable with. Starting from scratch with Python/Linux is probably not an option, since there would be no-one to support me in that. I may live in terror of something going wrong, for the next couple years, if I accept--and I have no idea if this new role would come with any additional compensation (I would hope so). What are your thoughts? Thanks very much
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2022.01.26 12:04 DrPQ Durkan's Test for Carpal Tunnel Syndrome - Wiki Sports Medicine

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2022.01.26 12:04 SlightClimate17 Edward wu

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2022.01.26 12:04 B1ACKBO1I [EU] [PS4] YouTube DBD partner/friend

Looking for someone to be friends with and do YouTube videos together. Person must want to do YouTube also. Want to do videos in Dead by Daylight open to other games once we get started. DM me if interested.
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2022.01.26 12:04 MotionBrain_CAD Not much but it’s honest work.

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2022.01.26 12:04 AJRey Why were snowmobiles and snowbikes removed from Vikendi?

Those were great additions to the map.
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2022.01.26 12:04 nausium I've only been playing three weeks but I came up with my own ordis joke: How long does a clem mission take?

I dunno, like tenno so minutes?
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2022.01.26 12:04 Radioactive_Pandaaa NEW AU/NZ Project Zomboid Server

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2022.01.26 12:04 lheimannO5 Need help with a serial number/dating on a conn 72h
Here I have as good of photos of the serial number I can get of my Conn 72h. I was wondering if anyone could help me date it. x20612 is what I’ve gotten. Just can’t get that first number.
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